Registered: Mar 2004
Originally posted by N@tasha
Hey Dani, let me tell you something, i don't know your whole story... but men in general are manipulative, they all seem gorgeous until they're not. I risk to receive a big backlash on this but i don't care!
If he likes you, why does he let 'her' in the way? Is she your friend too? As i said i don't know what's the problem, but if it's that, if she is your friend, think about it.. think about it really good on the possibility of reverse roles and if she would hesitate or think about you in those moments. If you're not really sure.. go for it. Trust me, i'm the person who never deserved back stabbing from their best girlfriends, but people tend to be really selfish at times. Then why not be selfish yourself??
edit: okay scratch this
My advice would be open the cards with him to know for sure his feelings and if you have a future with him, don't wait to be hurt. Do it now!
Oh and it just made me smile, the girl who never got her love life back on track tries to fix yours.
You guys are so amazing! Thing is we are like the same person! Its freaky how much we get eachother but were still very opposites. It started at work with long convos cause of our similar interests etc. We became like real good friends and at this firm party he told me he liked me he was attracted to me I was like his best gf. However. We ended up kissing that night - he said he can't. I turned my bk and left the room. This was in feb. I've since then seen a few guys but yea.. He broke up with her a few times but got bk together again.
I asked him why he was with her if he can tell me all those things he did. Be said it's not so easy bla bla. Friends/family etc I donno. He's not manipulative and I know difference between that and the real thing. Its just... I donno. I guess we will see what happens. Im not getting close until he breaks up with her - if that's what he wants. Can't have the cake and eat it too, right? I've lived through that too many times, so I've learned.
Last edited by » Dani on 09-14-2011 at 11:52 AM
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